These four points are:
1. Mental - There must be a meeting of the minds. You must have healthy communication and share your thoughts with clarity. Remember to be respectful, courteous and open-minded. All successful relationships start here.
2. Physical - There must be mutual attraction. If you are no longer attracted and decide to stay in the relationship anyway, your relationship will suffer. Instead, go back to point #1 and try again.
3. Emotional - There must be a meeting of the heart. Do not be afraid to express yourself with thoughtfulness. Emotional stability also plays a key role in your personal health and wellness.
4. Spiritual - No matter what your beliefs are, there must be a mutual foundation. If your partner does not believe in what you believe in, your relationship will suffer. Do not seek to convert or convince your partner to change. Respect their decision and move on.
Ultimately, the goal in any relationship is to learn and grow together. Think of these points as cylinders in your vehicle of love. If one of them burn out, you will end up on the side of the road. But do not fear. You can always take it to the shop. And with a little repair, you'll be back on the road again.
De'Master A. Thomas
4 comments:
declaration of possessive behavior in relationships
the pro side: a level or possession shows ownership, ownership shows responsibility, responsibility shows you care, showing you care means you love and if you love that means you will honor cherish and adore; never mean to cause hurt pain or sorrow and will always forgive and come back when you leave.
we all have a need to belong or have a need to feel that sense that we belong to something or someone ; that we matter ; that we have purpose and meaning.
the con side: distance can make the heart grow fonder or it can be a crutch for never really allowing full commitment or attachment. it can act as a protective barrier from getting hurt or hurting others. its safe. and safe can sometimes block the ability to fully engulf being open, vulnerable, revealing and accepted. playing it safe means not having to fully invest invest yourself. less risk-less loss.
either way, we all have the exact same hidden desire -- to be loved exactly for who we are at our very core and for that love to come to us right where we are right now today.
where there is pure love, time stands still. your heart and mind will not race and rush to get back or forth to anywhere. you will truly be unconditionally happy where you are at that very moment
I agree completely! Well said "Anon" and thanks for the comment!
MAN RULES
AT LAST A GUY HAS TAKEN THE TIME TO WRITE THIS ALL DOWN
FINALLY, the guys' side of the story. ( I MUST ADMIT, IT'S PRETTY GOOD.)
WE ALWAYS HEAR 'THE RULES' FROM THE FEMALE SIDE
NOW HERE ARE THE RULES FROM THE MALE SIDE
THESE ARE OUR RULES!
PLEASE NOTE. THESE ARE ALL NUMBERED #1 ON PURPOSE!
1. MEN ARE NOT MIND READERS.
1. LEARN TO WORK THE TOILET SEAT. YOU'RE A BIG GIRL. IF IT'S UP, PUT IT DOWN. WE NEED IT UP, YOU NEED IT DOWN. YOU DON'T HEAR US COMPLAINING ABOUT YOU LEAVING IT DOWN.
1. CRYING IS BLACKMAIL.
1. ASK FOR WHAT YOU WANT. LET US BE CLEAR ON THIS ONE:
SUBTLE HINTS DO NOT WORK!
STRONG HINTS DO NOT WORK!
OBVIOUS HINTS DO NOT WORK!
JUST SAY IT!
1. YES AND NO ARE PERFECTLY ACCEPTABLE ANSWERS TO ALMOST EVERY QUESTION.
1.. COME TO US WITH A PROBLEM ONLY IF YOU WANT HELP SOLVING IT. THAT'S WHAT WE DO. SYMPATHY IS WHAT YOUR GIRLFRIENDS ARE FOR.
1. ANYTHING WE SAID 6 MONTHS AGO IS INADMISSIBLE IN AN ARGUMENT. IN FACT, ALL COMMENTS BECOME NULL AND VOID AFTER 7 DAYS.
1. IF YOU THINK YOU'RE FAT, YOU PROBABLY ARE. DON'T ASK US.
1. IF SOMETHING WE SAID CAN BE INTERPRETED TWO WAYS AND ONE OF THE WAYS MAKES YOU SAD OR ANGRY, WE MEANT THE OTHER ONE.
1. YOU CAN EITHER ASK US TO DO SOMETHING OR TELL US HOW YOU WANT IT DONE. NOT BOTH.
IF YOU ALREADY KNOW BEST HOW TO DO IT, JUST DO IT YOURSELF.
1. WHENEVER POSSIBLE, PLEASE SAY WHATEVER YOU HAVE TO SAY DURING COMMERCIALS.
1. CHRISTOPHER COLUMBUS DID NOT NEED DIRECTIONS AND NEITHER DO WE...
1. ALL MEN SEE IN ONLY 16 COLORS, LIKE WINDOWS DEFAULT SETTINGS..
PEACH, FOR EXAMPLE, IS A FRUIT, NOT A COLOR. PUMPKIN IS ALSO A FRUIT. WE HAVE NO IDEA WHAT MAUVE IS.
1. IF WE ASK WHAT IS WRONG AND YOU SAY 'NOTHING,' WE WILL ACT LIKE NOTHING'S WRONG. WE KNOW YOU ARE LYING, BUT IT IS JUST NOT WORTH THE HASSLE.
1. IF YOU ASK A QUESTION YOU DON'T WANT AN ANSWER TO, EXPECT AN ANSWER YOU DON'T WANT TO HEAR..
1. WHEN WE HAVE TO GO SOMEWHERE, ABSOLUTELY ANYTHING YOU WEAR IS FINE...REALLY.
1.. DON'T ASK US WHAT WE'RE THINKING ABOUT UNLESS YOU ARE PREPARED TO DISCUSS SUCH TOPICS AS FOOTBALL OR MOTOR SPORTS.
1. YOU HAVE ENOUGH CLOTHES.
1 .. YOU HAVE TOO MANY SHOES.
1. I AM IN SHAPE. ROUND IS A SHAPE!
1.. THANK YOU FOR READING THIS. YES, I KNOW, I HAVE TO SLEEP ON THE COUCH TONIGHT.. BUT DID YOU KNOW MEN REALLY DON'T MIND THAT? IT'S LIKE CAMPING...
PASS THIS TO AS MANY MEN AS YOU CAN - TO GIVE THEM A LAUGH...
PASS THIS TO AS MANY WOMEN AS YOU CAN - TO GIVE THEM A BIGGER LAUGH, BECAUSE ITS TRUE!
A woman's mind is the Los Angeles freeway; a man's mind is a country road.
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