These four points are:
1. Mental - There must be a meeting of the minds. You must have healthy communication and share your thoughts with clarity. Remember to be respectful, courteous and open-minded. All successful relationships start here.
2. Physical - There must be mutual attraction. If you are no longer attracted and decide to stay in the relationship anyway, your relationship will suffer. Instead, go back to point #1 and try again.
3. Emotional - There must be a meeting of the heart. Do not be afraid to express yourself with thoughtfulness. Emotional stability also plays a key role in your personal health and wellness.
4. Spiritual - No matter what your beliefs are, there must be a mutual foundation. If your partner does not believe in what you believe in, your relationship will suffer. Do not seek to convert or convince your partner to change. Respect their decision and move on.
Ultimately, the goal in any relationship is to learn and grow together. Think of these points as cylinders in your vehicle of love. If one of them burn out, you will end up on the side of the road. But do not fear. You can always take it to the shop. And with a little repair, you'll be back on the road again.
De'Master A. Thomas
