Showing posts with label lessons. Show all posts
Showing posts with label lessons. Show all posts

Monday, March 27, 2023

Forgive Yourself: Yes you can

 

https://www.healthline.com/health/how-to-forgive-yourself

DEAR SELF, I FORGIVE YOU 😊





https://sunshynegray.com/how-forgive-yourself-move-on/

Five Tips For Getting Over Past Mistakes

1. Understanding Your Mistakes

Occasionally we go through life unhappily and not truly knowing why. Regret over a past mistake you committed could be causing you to feel this way.

Being regretful involves feeling bad about something you wish you had done differently. You may regret things you did do (regret of action), or regret things you didn’t do (regret of inaction).

It’s important to understand the source of your remorse and to acknowledge your rationale for doing, or not doing, whatever happened at the time.

2. Take Time To Grieve

Before you can accept that what’s done is done, you need to grieve the regrets that are presently holding you hostage.

If you feel you mistakenly missed out on an opportunity because of past decisions – such as not having children or not being closer with a family member, then take the time to grieve that loss.

If it’s not too late to alter the feeling of regret by taking some kind of action like reconciling with that family member, then take advantage of the opportunity now. Sometimes we have the opportunity to apologize if we regret how we handled a situation with another person. If there is something you can do now, do it!

Forgive, make amends, and convey your regret. We do not always have that chance, but we still need to express these upsetting emotions that could be limiting our present happiness.

3. Express Your Feelings

Write your feelings out – if only just for yourself. Bring these swarming, remorseful feelings out of your head and onto paper. Write them in a journal, or write them on a piece of paper to destroy in a way that makes you feel more fulfilled – like burning it.

Furthermore, while you’re in the process of writing, remove the words, “If only…then” from your vocabulary. Understand that worrying about the past is a potent prescription for stress and health problems. Do not make the guilty feelings more powerful by your fixation with them. You deserve to be good to yourself and have others be good to you too.

4. Accept Your Past Mistakes

Some regrets can be devastating and are not to be minimized. But there is no “delete” button for past actions or inactions. And while it may be very difficult, try to find some element of good that has come from that situation.

Remember that line from Bob Ross we mentioned earlier? “There are no mistakes – only happy accidents.” We have no choice but to accept what has happened and to think of the current options we do have.

And, while you may not be able to get over the consequences of prior decisions, you can let go of obsessing over them.

5. Learn From Your Mistakes

Make changes in your behavior to avoid similar faulty situations and decisions that brought you guilt in the past. Do not lose the lesson from the supposed loss. Consider what you could do differently today and start moving that way. How can you be a better parent, a better friend, or a better spouse?

Stop “beating yourself up” emotionally because of yesterday’s decisions and instead assess what choices you do have! It is never too late for many life opportunities – to go back to school or to learn a new skill, to connect with others in meaningful relationships, or to change your negative self-perception or attitude.

Grow past the pain of mistakes.

Grow past the shame.

Be deliberate. Be active.

Be involved in things that will bring you gladness, not guilt, for today and for the future.


Monday, March 20, 2023

Yellow Brick Road

 


 Melancholy should not be a choice, but a temporary place to relieve emotional stress
Sometimes, we grieve ourselves; we grieve our life's decisions; look back and see regrets; hoping for a
chance to do over ; but as we know, life rarely if ever; gives do-overs.

Happiness is a place between too little and too much

it's getting there that's makes all the difference

In this life, we make choices and must be prepared to live with the outcome.

Letting go doesn’t mean giving up. It means moving on to the next chapter; stronger and wiser than you were when you began.

If you feel like you're getting close but not quite there yet, you will get there. 

sadness is a feeling meant to pass; not to live in. 





Wednesday, March 15, 2023

Message to the Alphabet Community: public service announcment

 

 

There is are NO multiple genders. Masculine and feminine. Male and female, He made them. Genesis 1:27, 1 Corinthians 15:39.

Do not conform to the ways of this world (pronouns, identify as, etcetera – that is mockery, directly insulting to the original natural woman and female! A man pretending to be a woman IS pedophilia and IS direct worship of the Baphomet who was a hermaphrodite!  Sexual idolatry, perversion, abuse of your body, changing your gender, destroying your genitals in attempt to be anything but who and what you are, is all one big slap in the face of GOD! You were fearfully and wonderfully made. Yes, you may suffer from severe ever-increasing bouts of gender identity disorder, but that does NOT mean Jesus cannot save you from your disease! We are all broken and suffering in sin and you can also come out your sin of lust, perversion and confusion by first renewing your mind and then facing your demons head on and once you get saved, get clean and turn away from your sin and do not return to that life.

Homosexuality will be judged right along with murder, theft, lying and cheating and more. You do NOT have to kill, steal or destroy! This is a choice. you do NOT have to murder, take from others, lie on another person to bring yourself up and you do NOT have to violate the precious delicate spirit and body you were given in this one and only life, dressing up like the opposite sex and hating yourself. Projecting your insecurities, fears and frustrations on to others is utterly disgusting and hurtful to you and the ones subjected to your hurt and pain. A person who does not agree with murder is NOT phobic! They’re not AFRAID of murder, they simply do not CONDONE KILLING PEOPLE! Homosexuality is the same thing! Like it or not. just like suicide and abortion are still murder! no way around it. just stop doing it. period. 




If you need help dealing with your sins of lust, self-hate, low self-esteem and several other issues that cause the TRANS community to fall victim to the devil’s horrible destructive ways, get help from a local counsel and church that can get a Bible in your hands and teach you how to deal and cope with your addiction! Porn, Only Fans, social media, catfishing, dating apps, etc., all of it demonic! God gave us 10 simple rules, not guidelines or suggestions, rules! And no, they are NOT meant to be broken, they are there to save your life. literally. Find a non-denominational Bible based church in your area and get the help you need – get the counseling you need to do better, be better; we all carry our cross daily with something; alcohol, drugs, porn, stealing, lying, something…we all do. No one is perfect but Jesus. Let Him come in to your heart and save you from this horrible broken fallen world. 


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LAF and smile :)

 


When You're Smiling - Frank Sinatra


Jan: 2010 – The greatest ideas are born from chaos.

So, just how does Jesus do it? how doe He continue to care, after all that we have done to ourselves? Well, He looks right into the face of adversity and L.A.F.S. (laughs)

L. – loves

A. - accepts

F.-forgives

S.-serves

We love because He loved us first. (1 John 4:19)

God is the first love – the last love – the only love. This is first commandment above all others.

(1 Corinthians 13:13)

So, when it seems like someone or something in life has got you down, remember to L.A.F. – LOVE, ACCEPT, FORGIVE. Then serve, when you serve, you smile, when you smile, you shine. 😊


Tuesday, March 14, 2023

Serve to Lead: Lead to Serve

 

Remember these. Those of you who struggle in a relationship with children involved. Before you can be a parent to your child, you must first be a child to your parent. Men. Before you can be a father to your child, you must first be a child to your father. 

Matthew 20:28

what this means is we should be honoring our Father in Heaven by leaning in to His Word, learning the Bible, applying it in our daily lives and teaching our children up in the way that they should go so that they do not stray from it in their adulthood. God is our Heavenly Father, He is our "dad"; we need to be his sons and daughters in Christ and then teach our children the way of the world is GARBAGE! This world is Trash! Clean it up people, please. If you're able to read this and apply it, that means there's still time to save you and your children from some percent of hell and high water in life. Not everything in this life is going to be perfect, not everything in this life is going to go your way. In this life, there will be trouble, but: 



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Sunday, March 12, 2023

Set Free Indeed


 

Oct: 2008 – the likenesses and similarities in Krishna, Muhammad and Buddha, finally, Jesus, are intentional. The spiritual impact was the same. The teachings, extremely similar, even “miracles.”

 

(I was wrong. Jesus is the Word of God; the rest of these demonites are all Luciferian, Alister Crowleys of their time; did nothing but lead people into hell. Just like Joseph Smith and the rest. All trash. All knock offs. Matthew 24:4 – 8 all day; this will continue until Jesus returns)

 

All (claim) to have virgin births, angelic hosts, disciples. Although thousands of years are between them, the message is the same. God is real. God is alive. God is among us. So, how does the Holy Bible trump their extraordinary existences?

 

(Again, it was all bull!@#$; these demonically influenced, demonically possessed, bisexual people, suffered horribly from severe delusional levels of narcissistic personality disorder. They were packed chuck full of lust, greed, hate, vanity and pride. We see the repeatedly through politicians, world leaders, religious cults, secular cults, science, etcetera. It’s rampant and overflowing in music, movies, television and all forms of social media everywhere. Jesus, on the other hand, was perfect. Never sinned. Not once. The fruits of his labor literally support that he is who he says he is and indeed, the Bible is Jesus because Jesus is the Word of God. People trapped in the world, can’t see this, hate to heart this, it hurts. It irritates their demons. Rattled their cage too much. Jesus is the only one who can piss off a whole room full of atheists, religious fanatics and science believers. Why? Because Truth Hurts but heals. Lies kill and destroy. Conclusion, God is right, man is wrong. Get over it. please, continue)

 

The Bible states, false prophets, before Jesus/after Jesus, will walk the earth, leading thousands astray. ( https://www.openbible.info/topics/lead_astray  - God’s one like or view on your post or video on social media has more power than 8.5 billion likes or views – His view and like is the only one that matters)

 the journal says...

Here is the truth, according to the Creator – before my son entered the Earth, I entered the Earth through monumental figures through the entire world to plant the seed of the Holy Spirit and prepare each and every nation for my love and power and my purpose. In any Holy Figure of virgin birth, witnessed by a trinity and leaders formed to reach one, teach one, it was I.

 

(Eh hem! LIES!!! All of that is trash and simply, not true! But this is what people fall for in the world every day, because they refuse to accept the Bible as Truth and they’re too lazy and hateful to change! It is easier to swallow a buffet of trash than a spoonful of treasure.

 

Again, Mark 10:25




This is why sloth is a sin. It’s easier to be lazy and do nothing than to learn grow and do something about it! ugh, I don’t have the patience to argue with nonbelievers or Jesus’ haters, I just don’t! Jesus never argued with anybody who didn’t want to believe in Him and follow Him! He didn’t! So, why do we? 

Why are people on social media, arguing with brick walls? You fair better talking to a patch of grass. Stop arguing with people who don’t care, don’t want to learn and don’t want to change! Stop! Stop doing it. God doesn’t do it, Jesus didn’t do it, the disciples tried and got checked, Luke 22:24-30, so we should not be doing it! It’s asinine. 21 verses from God say, save your breath! You want to really make an impact a fool? Pray over them

Ezekiel 11:19-20

 

https://www.openbible.info/topics/arguing_with_a_fool

 

Ezekiel 11:19-20 NIV

I will give them an undivided heart and put a new spirit in them; I will remove from them their heart of stone and give them a heart of flesh. Then they will follow my decrees and be careful to keep my laws. They will be my people, and I will be their God.

Let’s see what the journal entry says about the rest of the LIES, LIES, LIES, that people scoop up like ice cream…good grief.

 

And so, I brought forth my Son, as the great sacrifice that I would no longer enter the Earth in human form again. it would not be necessary, as my Son has completed my legacy. I Am of all to every corner of the Earth, past, present and future. My Will has been done in accordance with my command.

 

And lastly, my Son will come again for a final time to your Earth to complete the final chapter of my master plan. For you and I to live in peace; free from sin and death, as I intended.

 OKAY, IF YOU HAVE NOT FIGURED IT OUT BY NOW, these are lies!! do NOT turn to religion, cults, science, the world, people down the street, your friend, your family member --- TURN TO THE TRUE WORD OF GOD AND LET JESUS CHRIST SAVE YOU FROM YOURSELF! 

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Another site I like to use: GOT QUESTIONS MINISTRIES



Sunday, March 5, 2023

Real Vs. Fake


 

The Family History 11/10/05

A short incredibly inaccurate story

 

God had three sons: Jesus, Lucifer and Adam. Two out of three sons will betray him and Jesus will inherit the keys to the Kingdom and the seat of the Crown as Lord of Lords; King of Kings.

(Ugh, you’re killing me! This is SO NOT TRUE!!! Jesus is the ONLY begotten Son of God! John 10:17–18) https://www.gotquestions.org/only-begotten-son.html

 

Lucifer chose to build his own kingdom, separate from God and become leader of his own nations or follower. (Isaiah 14:14)

 

Adam, the baby, had a choice. He was not strong enough in physical spiritual and universal intelligence to maintain or sustain an independent presence amongst the powers of his brothers so he had to choose refuge among one or the other. Adam came to find the whole purpose for his existence was to love and be loved by his family. Adam was never born to be king. Neither was Lucifer. Only the first son, the Morning Star, could be King. And so, it came to pass, God moved on to become an elder in the roundtable of allegiances, Jesus became Lord of Lords King of Kings, Lucifer stayed behind at old Milky Way, reigning as prince over all that remains of the galaxy. Adam chose to live with his big brother Jesus, in Barhadece (just a made-up word for Paradise but pronounced bah – rah – day – say).   

 

The Family History

 

OKAY. That was a fictitious story OBVIOUSLY that Never Happened!  But just like I just made that up in 2005, there’s people all over the world, making up stories daily since the dawn of time, not knowing the TRUE story in the Bible. I guess it’s true if people never read it or understood it, they truly don’t know! Jesus was spot on as usual when He said Hosea 4:6. Our people truly do perish and can be destroyed for their lack of knowledge! I guess that’s why it’s our job, our duty, our responsibility to God, to get the Good News out there; these kinds of stories are primitive and normally told around camp fires from elders to young ones but at some point, the Gospel needs to get in there and clean up the folk lore, fake stories and misleading representations of the One True Gospel.




Saturday, March 4, 2023

Be a part of HIS story

 

God seeks only to be loved by us. God does not seek our religion. God does not seek our science. God only seeks our love. God’s plan is to save us in every way there is to be saved.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KdlQA_UjcEk

God even walked the as a human to trade our captivity for His. All God asked of us in that until we meet again in Paradise, take care of yourselves and each other.  



Okay so I’m paraphrasing from Jerry Springer but you get the point. Jesus said it first to the disciples in his own way in Luke 19:13…

 

This is God’s heart toward us. And God is confident that we will choose life over death like He did. That we will choose love over pain, like He did, that we will choose peace over war, like He did.

“Epic” continues.

 

One the great fight is won, the final song has played, the order will be restored. To be back in the heart of Paradise, is written on the human heart. This is the deep seeded longing to live out the ending of this incredible journey; happily, ever after.

 

If it were note for this ending, life would be a pointless tragedy. Thankfully, the Artist has painted a future of infinite balance. It is not just a fairy tale.

 

(Your human life is NOT a “fairy tale” – fairies are demons or unclean spirits or fallen angels interchanging their appearance – we as humans should NEVER associate our likeness to a fairy, fairytales, fairies, charmed ones, supernatural spirits, preternatural or metaphysical beings. Period. No, this is not up for debate and it’s not legalism. Stop comparing humans to demons. God can’t stand it. It’s insulting, just stop doing it. Leviticus 19:31 - Regard not them that have familiar spirits, neither seek after wizards, to be defiled by them: I am the LORD your God. Go on, Eldredge, please continue.)

 


Witchcraft and demonic association are bad M Kay?

It is a promise of absolute certainty. God promised a new heaven and new earth is being prepared for us. We wo are in “love” will attend the greatest wedding in the history of all known existence. The promise is a place being prepared for us where there is love overflowing, the streets are paved in gold and life is everlasting. You see, eternity is also in our hearts.

 

https://www.gotquestions.org/streets-of-gold.html

 

(This part is referencing the interior of New Jerusalem the Holy City Revelation 21:21. This is real. Literal. Not a metaphor. Not a parable. It is a physical description of the inside. It’s the same as saying the interior of this car has leather seats. Well, the interior of this City has gold streets. It’s clean, pure ability to transmit and conduct energy that’s not hot or cold or dangerous to the touch totally makes sense in the grand architecture of a 1500 mile high structure with Jesus in the middle of it. Once you know who runs this city, it’s not even a surprise that everything New Jerusalem is made out of is perfect. Look who owns it. Go God go.)

 


 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pT5FsJtjXfY

 


Nov 2005: Bible verse at top of page: Be kind and compassionate to one another. Forgiving each other, just as in Christ, God forgave you. Ephesians 4:32.

 

An immortal life. The restoration of all things. Paradise is restored. Relationships are restored and love is the only “religion” we know. This is our future. If you choose it. this is the power of choice. the invitation of life is still good if you want it. Restoration of life means beauty, intimacy and adventure immortal. This is your story. This is my story. To be part of HIS story in the making.



What is Love?

 


So, what does God want from me? Love. Out of that, comes a roaring rushing river; full of service adoration worship and praise. Think about it. When you “love” someone; you “do” because you “want” to; not because you “have to”.

 

You care because it’s genuinely out of concern and respect. You lean in; not away. You want to protect them; hold them, kiss them, squeeze them and caress them. You want to educate them, scold them, keep them around forever. Because you “love” them. When you love someone truly, you are committed. You would do anything for them, even if it means putting yourself in danger or putting your own heart or your own life on the line.

 

You do this not out of desperation; you’re doing that out of love! That’s the same kind of burning desire God hopes that you would have for Him! This undying urge to be in His presence, spend time with Him, get to know Him; he’s not lonely, He’s far from alone!

 

That’s not what I’m talking about. I’m talking about a personal intimate relationship. Not a slave - master punishment of abuse and indentured servitude. That’s not God’s love. Love because you have it in you to give; not because you’re going through the motions.

 

Just like a person can see that you don’t mean it; God can see that too! He knows when you’re faking it and when you really mean it. Love out of kindness; let your gestures be outward expressions of that love. Let your obedience be an outward extension of that love!

 

It is the greatest source of all! His Love returned to Him is the greatest return on investment He could ask for. There’s nothing like the solid bond that cannot be broken between God and his child who loves Him as He loves the child.

 


Genesis 2:7 ; that’s intimacy ( that’s personal ; meaningful )

Genesis 2: 21-21; that’s delicacy ( that’s patience; takes His time )

Genesis 1:28 ; that’s trust ( when you love somebody you trust them )

Genesis 3: 21 – 23; that’s care ( forgiveness ; we do this endlessly when we love someone )

John 3:16 ( that’s sacrifice – you put others before yourself when you’re “in” love )

 

And the list goes on and on. From Genesis to Revelation again. It’s the greatest love story ever told. A story about a Creator who made a creation in hopes that it would give and receive love; when it could not or was not able; more love was poured about in abundance to save the creation from danger and death; restore and heal the creation so that once again, they might have a chance to live and love again. if you truly understand, it should break your heart to tears. This. Is. Love.

 

1 Corinthians 13:4-8

 

Satan says to Jesus, “why don’t you just leave? They’re diseased hateful and abusive! They don’t love you! Leave them!” But Jesus does NOT give up. He continues to fight for out of LOVE. Don’t ever tell an abuse victim, why don’t you just leave. It’s not ignorance or pity for the abuser; in the case of humans vs God – it’s love! Every chapter of the Bible – love is the underline of the story. Love is the point. Love is choice.

 

One of my favorite movie quotes:

Agent Smith: “You can’t win its pointless to keep fighting! Why do you persist? (the devil) 

Neo: “because I CHOOSE to”.  (the savior)

 


See? Satan and Jesus. Every story every written on earth; every TV show, movie, poem, all of it! Is a repeat from the Bible! I guarantee if you really sat down and decoded everything program you ever watched, unpacked every movie you ever saw, somewhere in the plot, there’s the Bible.  Even adult film and horror is Biblical. It’s literally the days of Noah and Jesus all over again. There’s nothing new under the sun. (Ecclesiastes 1: 8-10). 

 

For me personally, wow, this kicked in and explains a lot of why from the time I wrote that journal entry in 2005 to now, I’m technically still stuck in the same place: Ecclesiastes 1 : 16 – 18.

 

16

I thought to myself, "Look, I have grown and increased in wisdom more than anyone who has ruled over Jerusalem before me; I have experienced much of wisdom and knowledge."

17

Then I applied myself to the understanding of wisdom, and also of madness and folly, but I learned that this, too, is a chasing after the wind.

18

For with much wisdom comes much sorrow; the more knowledge, the more grief.

We were made to Love Him

 We were made from “their” likeness. (mind body soul) WE WERE MADE TO LOVE GOD. This is where our ‘Epic’ becomes a love story. The greatest love story ever told. God creates us with “like” powers – the ability to reason, create, share intimacy; to know passion, laughter and pain. Through this “likeness”, we are able to experience wonder and imagination and most of all, we have the ability to dream.

 

Lastly, we have the ability to love. Love is the point. It is the reason for it all. Sadly, love has no boundary and must not be bound or controlled in any way. In short, love is an invisible power that we cannot see. It chooses you. You don’t choose it. you cannot control wo you love or force anyone to love you against their will. This is the problem of pain for God. Because we have free “will”.

 

(Now here, the verbiage is correct, not a misnomer, but the full sentence should be ‘because we have freedom to exercise our willpower’. In the truest sense of the word: we have the ability to control or restrain our impulses.)

 

Is willpower and self-control the same?

But self-control and willpower are different. Self-control refers to managing your behavior to achieve goals, improve positive outcomes, and avoid negative consequences. Whereas willpower is the ability to resist short-term temptations and desires to achieve long-term goals

https://www.forbes.com/sites/womensmedia/2022/04/22/heres-how-willpower-and-self-control-affect-your-ability-to-reach-your-goals/?sh=25a72b694f43

 

Our “willpower” comes from God. We are not able on our own.

 


The Holy Spirit living in the Christian is far stronger than any attack by the Devil. This encouragement should empower believers not to fear Satan, but rather trust the Lord and obey His commands. By doing so, we can overcome the powers of darkness and walk with boldness in this life.

https://www.bibleref.com/1-John/4/1-John-4-4.html#:~:text=The%20Holy%20Spirit%20living%20in,with%20boldness%20in%20this%20life.

 

(Okay, now that’s cleared up. Go on.)

 

God cannot force us to Love Him. God can only hope we ‘love’ in return. We know we are not what we were meant to be. We all fail on the most essential virtue of all. We fail when it comes to loving. We fail to love God. We fail to love ourselves.

 

Consider also, this. Every great story has a ‘rescue’. God has a rescue plan to save love and rescuing the human heart in the hardest mission in the world. Do we even want to be rescued? For those of us who do not, they will not be saved. Saved from whom? Themselves. God experiences sadness, pain and jealousy just like we do, however, it is magnified times the power of ten. God is a lover scorned; betrayed over and over again.

 

God’s love for us is greater than the pain and this is why God’s Plan is to ‘rescue’ us from captivity – the captivity of the heart.