For so long we have been told we have to sacrifice, compromise or give up all or a part of ourselves in order to be happy. Nothing is further from the truth. We must make a complete shift in our thinking and the way we live and love. It is not that we must sacrifice, but accentuate. It is not that we must give up, but 'add to', and lastly, we shall not compromise, but compliment.
By doing this, you can literally turn the tables of almost any situation, in your favor. By accentuating, adding to, and complimenting, you gain the same in return. These are key ingredients of a healthy mental and emotional diet and you will improve the quality of life for yourself and others. Choose to be a better 'you'. You are 'you' before, during, and after any relationship. Never sacrifice who you are for anyone else. Never give up your core principles and values for the sake of another and never compromise your character to make another person happy. Ultimately, the truth is life is like chess. Make your next move your best move and play to win.
De'Master A. Thomas