A Letter From God

Dear child, I noticed you sitting here and wondered if I may sit with you. I heard your thoughts, but it was so loud that when I answered you, you could not hear Me. I saw your tears, but it was so clouded, you could not see Me. I saw you fall, but you were so angry in fear, that you could not feel Me. So I thought I would write you this letter, and when you had a moment, you would read it and remember how much I love you. 

When others called you ugly, I said you are beautiful. When others said you were mean, I said you are my friend. When others turn away from you, I call you my hero. When others have forgotten about you, I think about you everyday. 
I only want the best for you, if you want it for yourself. So when they tell you that you were a mistake, tell them I said you were made with purpose. I knew exactly what I was doing, when I brought you into this world. I will keep my promise I made to you, before the day you were born; to enjoy the laughter and smell the roses and help you endure the thorns. You see, you are truly, madly, deeply loved, so stay close, because it gets better. And if ever you need a reminder, know that I Am with you always, and go back and read this letter.

Forever Yours, 
Love God

(De'Master A. Thomas)

Lust vs. Love

And the winner is...

As if you had to ask.  Look.  Our society and progressive sexual revolution have led us astray.  We have only one body - one mind - and one "heart."  To believe that overindulgence in carnal pleasures is healthy is a complete scam to rope you into buying pointless products that do more damage than good.  And to lure you into doing irreparable damage to yourself physically, mentally and emotionally.  It starts in the home.  That's right. Sounds old fashioned, but proper care of the body and mind starts with the parent and child relationship.  What you learn as a child, you take with you into adulthood.  What you teach or fail to teach your children they will learn somewhere else and then it may be too late.  Never lie to a child.  About anything.  Including fully educating your child on the proper use of their bodies.  After all, it is "procreation" not "recreation" and while it may feel great for the moment, every time you lay down with someone you give a small part of yourself away that you will never get back.

So ask yourself.  It is worth it?  Is the price of lust worth the value of love?  Obviously there can be no wager on something that is priceless.  We all live with temptation.  We are all born with natural desires, wants, and needs to be desired in return.  Sex is a beautiful and fantastic expression of love between two people who are committed to each other on every level.  Did you catch that? Sex is an expression of Love.  When it is equally shared between two people who are committed to each other.  Ask yourself. What better way to show how I feel about someone than to give myself completely to them?  But there must be an all 4 points bond or it is only sex-not making love.  The outcomes are irreversible and so is the passion or pain depending on which role you play.  Learn what is natural and maturely seek to share your love with someone.  You will find that true love and happiness in a relationship requires no special effects to be magical and spectacular.  Take your time with love and be mindful of how you treat your body.  Indeed you will get out of it what you put into it so if it is a landfill you are planning then so shall it be trash that you put in it.  If it is warmth, compassion, ecstasy, and the embrace of your deepest connection with this person, then unleash the beast and go for it.

Indeed the body is amazing, attractive and exciting.  But the mind is strong, wise and careful.  Let your mind be the guide of your body-not the other way around.  If it is not appropriate for children, it is not appropriate for adults.  Adults, lead by example and know that those who follow are watching.  If you are careless and destructive with your sexuality and make hurtful decisions with negative outcomes, then there is a greater chance the child to follow will make the same choices.  So choose wisely in your quest to find a life partner.  If you are not ready for love then you are not ready for sex.  Plain and simple.  If you are not completely and totally ready to bring a life into this world in a two parent household that is stable and prepared to raise a child, then you are not ready for sex.  If you believe that lust is love - then you are definitely not ready for sex.  There is this great illusion we have fooled ourselves into believing; that it is okay because we can always use protection.  Again I say to you, if you have to invite any type of external devices into your bed with your life partner, including contraception, then you are not ready for making love.  Sex between two people with any type of foreign object is not love.  Because love knows no boundary and knows no border.  So if you think you are doing yourself a favor by strapping up or plugging up-think again.  You are purposely manipulating the design of intercourse to become strictly recreation and taking away its original purpose: to bring a life made out of love into this world.

And there you have it. K.O. knockout, first round. Love wins with one hit to the heart and lust loses with all its empty body blows to the senses.  Be wise in your step and let your mind be the guide for the body.

-DeMaster A. Thomas

Forgiveness

Forgiveness. It is not a concept. It is a fact. Forgiveness is always a win-win solution. It does not matter what the reason was. Far too often you hear people say well that's unforgivable. Literally speaking, there is no such thing. Humans are conditional beings. We forgive, but we do not forget. This is also on purpose; by design. If you forget, you do not learn from the mistakes and remember to avoid them in the future. I have been known to say forgiveness is not for them - it's for you! I say this because of the incredible relief it brings to the heart and mind to finally "let it go" and of course, it lets the other person know that you are no longer holding that negativity over them.

Here is a little exercise in forgiving deeply. If you have a picture or are in the presence of the person you wish to forgive, say this aloud to them with sincerity. If it is yourself you need to forgive, say this aloud and put your name first. (Example: mom, dad, son, daughter, their name or your name here and keep going....) If the other person is not ready to listen, write them a letter or leave a message. Either way, the healing begins now. If the other person needs to say these same words to you-be prepared to listen and be forgiven!

"( insert name here ), today - I forgive you. 100 times for a 1000 things, I forgive you.  It was not your fault that (state issue(s) here) happened.  Even if it was, I still forgive you. To wish (__) was never born is to wish (__) was never loved and that is not truly how I feel.  I may have let outside influences determine what I think about (__). I can see the lies from the truth. I am ready to accept the truth. It is time for me to enjoy my life completely without the stress of being angry. So today (___), I forgive you. I forgive you for (list all the things you can think of here). I have to start taking better care of me. I will no longer bring these things up as a way to hurt you or to get back at you. In return, I ask that you forgive me for anything I may have done along the way and know that I will do all I can to learn and grow from this."

To be most effective, choose a quiet setting where all parties can listen and speak without interruption. It is crucial that the listener holds their response until the end. Do this and you will be fulfilled. To forgive is to love and to love is Divine.

-DeMaster A. Thomas

These Three Words

I Wish I Could Describe Him To You

Dr. Shadrach Meshach (S.M.) Lockridge's famous sermon

True religion is a changed heart. Rebuild your foundation on love.

D. A. Thomas

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Reflection

I CAN BE 100% COMPLETE IF I PUT THE MIRROR OF TRUTH AND LOVE IN FRONT OF ME.

-DeMaster Thomas 

The Four Points of True Compatibility

If there is one thing dating and marriage has taught us, it is no two people are alike. While this may be true, contrary to all beliefs common and uncommon, males and females are naturally designed with only four points of undeniable compatibility.

These four points are:
1. Mental - There must be a meeting of the minds. You must have healthy communication and share your thoughts with clarity. Remember to be respectful, courteous and open-minded. All successful relationships start here. 
2. Physical - There must be mutual attraction. If you are no longer attracted and decide to stay in the relationship anyway, your relationship will suffer. Instead, go back to point #1 and try again. 
3. Emotional - There must be a meeting of the heart. Do not be afraid to express yourself with thoughtfulness. Emotional stability also plays a key role in your personal health and wellness.
4. Spiritual - No matter what your beliefs are, there must be a mutual foundation. If your partner does not believe in what you believe in, your relationship will suffer. Do not seek to convert or convince your partner to change. Respect their decision and move on.

Ultimately, the goal in any relationship is to learn and grow together. Think of these points as cylinders in your vehicle of love. If one of them burn out, you will end up on the side of the road. But do not fear. You can always take it to the shop. And with a little repair, you'll be back on the road again.

De'Master A. Thomas

What's In A Dream?

Underneath all the daily dishes of obstacles, challenges, and speed bumps along the path of life, there is still that little spark in all of us that encourages us to dream. And if we can dream, we can visualize a reality where those obstacles bring us to higher ground, those challenges prepare us for the future, and those speed bumps slow us down enough to enjoy the small things along the way.

Dreams are the gateway to the soul. Do not be afraid to follow. Focus on the final outcome and literally see yourself where you want to be. This is how concept becomes reality. See it, believe it, become it. Ah, the power of dreams. Not to mention it is also a great way to explore the vast corners of the imagination and can be quite entertaining, emotional, and even spiritually uplifting at times. Keep a journal of you are able. Record the events and images you see in your dreams. After all, they may be trying to tell you something more lurks beneath the surface of all those so-called random images.

Could it be your aspirations are looking for a way out? It is never too late to start or finish something you put your mind to within reason of course. So keep a log or diary and move forward. Your diligence may uncover the blueprint you need for a new business plan or a help you find new direction in your relationship. It may be a heartfelt message you need to share with someone close to you. If you haven't already, get started today and unlock the treasure chest of your dreams. You'll be surprised what you find.

-De'Master A. Thomas

What is Love?

Oscar the Grouch says, "everybody is always talking about love." Perhaps love is something more than what our commercialized, materialistic society would have us believe. Maybe there is more to the core of love than just chocolates and flowers. Since the beginning we have asked ourselves what is this force; this power; this energy; this living breathing entity the world calls love? Well to be brutally honest we as a being do not have the answer. So for a true, deep, irrefutable, incontestable answer, I went to The Source.
I asked Love itself, who are you...really?

Love said, "I am patient. I am kind. I am never jealous. I am not boastful and full of pride. I am never rude, selfish or easily provoked. I keep no record of wrongdoings. I do not delight in pain or sorrow. Instead, I smile and sing out in truth. I protect. I trust. I hope. I dream. I visualize. I overcome. I am light for all. I am life for all. I-Never-Fail."

What do you have to say about that, Oscar? So the next time you feel that warm, comforting feeling inside of you to do something sweet, gentle and kind for yourself or someone else, embrace it and smile and know that it is Love.

-De'Master A. Thomas